23 December 2008

The Responsibility of Love

MUSTAFA'S FAMILY MESSAGE


gives


Spiritual Guidance


on


"THE RESPONSIBILITY


of LOVE"


"Love can be a very fragile thing. It can also be the most powerful aspect in anyone's lives.


"It allows one freely to express their feelings to another and to bring about much comfort and joy.


"The individual also gets a buzz by giving of that love and to know that it is gratefully received at all times.


"Where love can become harmful is where it can overpower an individual and even suffocate that person's own growth or individuality.


"Love must be given freely at all times without the smothering of another as this can be most harmful.


"It is Spirit's wish for free love to be given at all times, so that an energy of peace and security is given through that love.


"It makes sense that love does not necessarily come naturally to everybody and must be learned at times by example.


"To look around you and to see in nature just how animals defend their young and look after them sometimes in great danger and hardship, but always with the utmost care and delicacy.


"They bring about a form of loving security whereby the young can always expect to be looked after, even the weak as with elephants are looked after by the herd and there are even surrogate females, who will give and nurture those that are in need, so allowing the species to survive.


"Man, who tends to think he is the master of this globe, has a lot to answer for as love is not always shown as it should be.


"If love is not shown to a young human from an early age that soul will grow up not knowing how to act or even react to the power of love should he/she be exposed to it.


"When the human being does not experience a loving environment so that human being cannot then, because learning has not taken place, be capable of showing or giving it in adulthood.


"It simply becomes foreign to that individual and so when in adulthood they try to forge some kind of a relationship, love can then be null and void.


"It becomes nonexistent so the individual, barren of this vital human emotion, tends to be uncaring and without emotion or compassion.


"What emotion is there is not triggered in the right way, so missed messages are given and much confusion on both sides occurs.


"Love, unconditional love, must be shown and given by example to young offspring from the point of birth.


"This way a strong emotional bond occurs and that baby can then start to grow in an environment of peace and harmony and a sustenance that love brings to that child.


"They begin to forge a loving relationship with others that is sustainable and can through the friendly exchange of giving and receiving of that love build up a sustenance that can carry them through their entire life.


"Not only in their own loving relationships with a partner, but also through every aspect of society.


"Because love is so sustaining with the emotions of the mind and the body, that individual is also the healthier for it.


"Because love enters the soul and the molecular structure of the body, so the body and all its cells are enriched and the individual is far less likely to get any nasty diseases.


"An energy force, which safeguards the bodies own immune system is set up and so illness, especially severe illnesses, will not take hold and the individual is able to cope on a much better footing throughout their own lives.


"As parents to our offspring, we are responsible in giving every child that much needed gift of love as it is the child's right to receive it and a safer environment for the child is accomplished.


"It is also our responsibility to protect wherever possible any adverse happenings to come to our children from outside influences, thereby further strengthening that child.


"In today's society where there is so much violence and so much emotional anger, we are putting a great strain on our youngsters who find it very difficult to cope.


"Anger and violence seems to be growing daily and so the fine balance is upset and the child becomes afraid and hostile to the experience.


"They lash out in fear and confusion. Their safe haven is torn to shreds and they find themselves very alone and isolated.


"They then start to become withdrawn and can't understand what should be a healthy, loving society with everybody giving and working together that there is upset, anger and much fear all around.


"Schools, which should be a place of safe haven, are often a battleground of grief and despair destroying our youth in more ways than they realise.


"Our responsibility as parents, as individuals and as a nation, is to bring back love wherever possible, to start to talk to one another, to bring about compassion and to begin to eliminate fear and confusion.


"Until we start to give the full responsibility of love to every individual whose right it is to obtain that love, then anger and fear is born and anarchy is bred and then disaster.


"We cannot afford to take the different route and say, "It doesn't apply to us."


"As human beings throughout our lives we encounter aggression, hatred and much fear.


"What is it that brings people to these points in their lives? The simple answer is that they have been let down in some way.


"Either by society or people in general have hurt them and according to how vulnerable that individual was in the first place, so the depth of that pain is then measured by their own experience.


"We all have a responsibility as a human race to try and live in peace and harmony and to bring back love with much understanding, so that compromises can be met and maintained, so that renewed satisfactory confidence can be born and so the human race can learn that aggression is never the answer.


"To destroy can never be the achiever, but to learn to build bridges and to allow an individual to feel protected and secure that is all we ever really want in this life and of course to be loved.


"We owe it to all of us to do our best for this World to be a better place to live in.


"God bless, Mustafa."



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