It is Normal to Show Your Feelings

 

MUSTAFA'S

 

SPIRITUAL GUIDANCE

 

is

 

"IT IS NORMAL TO

 

SHOW YOUR FEELINGS"

 

"It is so often the case that people do not show their emotions.  They prefer to hide behind a mask, which can be funny or just straight.

 

"Out of fear of disapproval this mask can remain for a lifetime.

 

"The difficulty that it presents, especially where close loved ones are concerned, is that they do not know what the true feelings of that person can ever be as it is rarely seen.

 

"Where the person loves another and hides behind their mask unable to reveal their true feelings, it makes it so difficult for others to get truly close to this masked person.

 

"The relationship is often fraught and uncertainty in the relationship occurs.  Do they love me or not?  If they don't show their true feelings how will I ever know?

 

"Even discussions on emotional subjects can prove most embarrassing and are often laughed off.

 

"What causes this person to hide and run away from showing their emotions is fear.

 

"It usually stems from childhood, where parents never showed them true love emotions and would often put their children down, criticising what they did and how they behaved.

 

"There would be an environment where cuddles and hugs are not given and so the child learns this is how you behave.  This is how it must be.

 

"So when they become an adult, embarking on what they hope will be a loving relationship, they are often found unable to express or even to demonstrate love in a way that can be normal behaviour to most people.

 

"So in relationships it is difficult for that person to reciprocate, to love in a way that is shown and given to them.

 

"It could take many years before that individual can begin to show their true feelings and even in a relationship where there is much trust and love and understanding, a safe environment, it will take perhaps even a lifetime to feel safe enough to demonstrate and talk about how they actually feel.

 

"For those poor people the struggle internally can be great.  They would feel very let down, almost abandoned by their parents because they have learned that people do show their feelings openly and this is normal.

 

"Their emotional confidence is not there, but in time they will learn and begin to accept that in a safe, loving environment, true emotions can be shown and accepted graciously and the loving bond within that unit can grow and in time develop into something more meaningful.

 

"Their own pain finally being released, they can let down their guard and their mask.

 

"Peace of mind follows and at last they can be free of their own restraints.

 

"God bless, Mustafa."

 

 

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To Give Up Something in Ones Life

 

MUSTAFA'S

 

SPIRITUAL GUIDANCE

 

tells how

 

"TO GIVE UP SOMETHING

 

IN ONES LIFE"

 

"To give up something in ones life is often so necessary.  None of us like change at the best of times.

 

          "We all would rather put up with what is familiar to us, even if it is not good for us and causes us untold misery, than to move on.

 

          "To move on into the unknown is what frightens us.

 

          "We see ourselves stepping into a blank void and worry that we cannot make it and, as is human nature, will constantly fight against it until eventually it is forced upon us.

 

          "Situations that are not right will in time be flushed out, whether it takes months or even years the situation will only become more unbearable until through no choice of our own we are pushed away from it.

 

          "'God' loves us and never wishes to see us suffer.

 

          "Our suffering is there because it is our ego who thinks it knows better – wishes to remain in that status quo.

 

          "The fear in us is so great we will not accept that we must move on in order for situations to change and a better outcome can come in and be achieved.

 

          "Present unhealthy situations that are no longer required to the individual will only get worse until at last the full realisation that they have no choice but to act and move on, comes fully in their minds.

 

          "The cold light of day finally dawns on them and they see the sheer impossibility of the situation and the pain they have inflicted on themselves in staying in that position is too much to bear.

 

          "Once the realisation comes in, then they can and will move on faster than they realise.

 

          "'God' then comes in with all 'His' angels to assist in the recovery of that individual and the new path of discovery opens up and another chapter of their life is shown to them, a much happier, productive one than before.

 

          "'God' cannot, will not bring in changes to an individual's life while they emphatically wish to remain in that misery.

 

          "By Spiritual Law 'He' must abide by the person's free will.

 

          "However as the situation, because it is not right any longer, will only get worse, they further fall and it is through love of that individual, whereby the possible destruction to their soul becomes impaired, that 'God' and 'His' angels step in and the situation is then taken out of their hands and they are forced to move on.

 

          "'God' cannot allow for the individual to destroy his/her own soul and so it is for their benefit and 'His' love for them that 'He' then has to act.

 

          "Saving that soul against their own blinding misery is far more important.

 

          "Love, here on a Higher Level, is given and finally achieved.  The person is then saved.

         

"God bless, Mustafa."

 

 

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Have We Forgotten about the 'God' Thing?

 

MUSTAFA'S

 

SPIRITUAL GUIDANCE

 

invites us

 

"HAVE WE FORGOTTEN

 

ABOUT THE 'GOD' THING?"

 

"Have we forgotten about 'God' in our lives?  For the majority of us the answer is, "Yes".

 

"We are so busy getting on with our lives that 'God' is never given a second thought.

 

"As long as we are thriving and getting on with what we need to do, so the 'God' thing is not required, is not needed, is but surplus to requirements.

 

"It is only when things/situations become dire that we turn to 'God' at our convenience.  To say that we are all selfish in one way or another can be questionable.

 

"However it is true that we tend to pick up 'God' only when we need 'Him' and ignore 'Him' the rest of the time – to see 'God's handiwork in all creation tends not to be noticed.

 

"It is only when we are vulnerable and exposed to much fear that we realise we all need 'Him' in our lives.  This new decade will see massive changes to us both emotionally and economically.  How we have behaved in the past will see us either rise or fall.

 

"We all have to start to learn that until we do and act spiritually and to start to accrue spiritual points in our lives, we really cannot expect much back.

 

"Most of us have no idea of the Spiritual Investment that is required from us each day in order for it to make that necessary difference to our lives.

 

"Most of us go through life aimlessly sleep walking, doing the bare minimum of good deeds therefore acquiring little to none in our own spiritual bank.

 

"It simply never dawns on us that this is what is required of us since the time we were able to reason and comprehend why it is that we are all here.  Why we were born in the first place.

 

"We are not here on this spiritual earth plane to just tend to our own needs and self gratification, but to remember that we are all part of the 'Godhead' and therefore empowered to do good amongst our fellow man.

 

"The snows brought great hardship to so many.  We grumbled we couldn't get to work.  Our lives were upset and disorganised.  How many of us actually thought of those who were homeless, sleeping rough in conditions of sub zero degrees?  They had no food and water and many perished.

 

"When did our thoughts go out to the elderly and vulnerable who were trapped with little to no provisions?  How did we react?  What kind of acts of mercy did we perform?

 

"There were those who did venture out with a good spirit to try and bring comfort to those who were in need, but they were in the minority.  Most of us thought about ourselves and of our own comforts.

 

"The angels of 'God', those people who were moved, did bring in relief, provisions and comfort to those in need.  They, though unwittingly, did it all for the right reasons.  They did answer the call from 'God' and did what was needed.

 

"When their time comes, when they will need a helping hand at some point in their lives, so 'God' will be there for them.  They will receive the assistance and help they so richly deserve as they stretched out a helping hand, so 'God' rewards them by equally offering the hand of help to them.

 

"'God' works continuously for us in so many ways, if only we took the time to see it and start to change our lives in a better more practical and loving way.  'He' does make a difference.

 

"Don't ignore 'Him' as when out time comes we won't recognise it is 'His' helping hand in our lives when our circumstances change and we ourselves are in need.

 

"He is always there.  Can we really afford to ignore 'Him' – Mustafa?"

 

 

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Time for Reflection

 

MUSTAFA'S

 

SPIRITUAL GUIDANCE

 

invites us to take

 

"TIME FOR REFLECTION"

 

          "The New Year tends to start a bit slowly and this year proves as no exception.

 

"This slowing down of procedures, for some it is even at a standstill, is not to be looked at with anger or disarray, but to stop us in our tracks to reflect on what is truly important in our lives.

 

          "It really brings us down to the grass roots of life.  To experience this lull in activity can be quite disconcerting to most people.

 

          "They feel out of balance and certainly out of control.  When this happens we tend to get panicky and quite often angry and upset.

 

          "Control is taken out of our hands and the reason very much behind this is to make us see what we need to do with our lives and how we change it for the better.

 

          "This time is enforced on us to see how we can alter our lives and in what direction is the right one for us.

 

          "We all tend to get stuck in a rut with little knowledge of how too get out of it.

 

          "We are always given help and advice if only we take this valuable time to seek it out.

 

          "Our minds are not closed to ideas – that happens all the time.  It is our job to see what ideas are constantly coming to mind and whether we can act on it?

 

          "Have we got the wherewithal to go ahead and do something substantial in our lives, which can assist us in a better way?

 

          "The thoughts will continue to come in, almost like a pattern of thought, until we fully recognise that is what we need to do.  That thought will never leave us.

 

          "Always help is given to steer and guide us in the right direction.  Once we have grasped what is required the thought is no longer so obsessive.  We finally have got the message.

 

          "Once that has been established and acknowledged, the way then opens up to how it can all come about.

 

          "The effort required on us is not always enormous, but it is necessary for the outcome to be successful and so you as the individual can become fulfilled.

 

          "So a sole purpose of practice and delivery comes in, so that you can emerge as the successful person that is always required of you.

 

          "It is all about moving on and finding yourself.  So do not worry that this New Year has not gone off with a startling bang, but to engage in thought and practical purpose, so that the outcome is already secure and productive.

 

          "This really is a very important time for you as an individual and equally collectively as a whole!

 

"God bless, Mustafa."

 

 

 

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Think About Your Own Personal Needs

 

MUSTAFA'S

 

SPIRITUAL GUIDANCE

 

invites us

 

"THINK ABOUT YOUR

 

OWN PERSONAL NEEDS"

 

"As the New Year comes into effect and all those New Year's resolutions become activated, take time to really think about your own personal needs.

 

"It is not all about doing what is expected of you, but to see what is actually right for you.

 

"For you to have happiness and contentment          in your lives, so then you must first obtain peace of mind.

 

"That restless spirit must be calmed and so you can begin to see just what is really important to you and how your lives can become much better.

 

"We are eager to go at such a pace that 'burn out' to many becomes possible.

 

"We never seem to be content with what we have, always striving for more and more.

 

"It is never the amount you have that brings you lasting happiness, but the knowing that what you have is already enough and that there really is no need for more.

 

"Peace of mind comes from within, knowing you are healthy and have love around you.

 

"Most of us take what we have for granted and it is only when it is no more that the value of what we had becomes realised.

 

"No one and I do mean no one, must take anything for granted.

 

"They must see that all they have is 'God' given and must be allowed in their minds to appreciate that fact.

 

"So if you finally achieve that peace of mind and you are really content with what you have, then your life becomes very special indeed and you are in a place that is sought after by so many.

 

"All your needs are always provided for provided you all go about life in the right way, never expecting too much, but knowing what you have will sustain you.

 

"Love from the Heavens is all around you and if you feel devoid of love in your life, then you just need to meditate and love is always brought in.

 

"It is a special divine love that is greater than earthly love and will sustain your needs.

 

"So begin to think now carefully in this New Year and see that all your needs are in fact met.

 

"Be grateful for all you already have.  Take nothing for granted and say a special thank you to yourself for being you.

 

"Peace does come over time.  It actually has to be learnt and recognised.

 

"It is special and if you are wise, then it will remain with you for all time.

 

"Mustafa, Amen."

 

 

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